Information on Aboriginal funeral traditions and etiquette
Indigenous Australian people constitute 3% of Australia’s population and have many varied death rituals and funeral practices, dating back thousands of years. Aboriginal communities may share common beliefs, but cultural traditions can vary widely between different communities.
These cultural differences mean that funeral traditions will differ, but a common idea is that Aboriginal death rituals aim to ensure the safe passage of the spirit into the afterlife, and to prevent the spirit from returning and causing mischief.
You may hear Aboriginal people use the phrase ‘sorry business’. This term refers to the funeral and mourning rituals around the death of a member of the community.
Planning an Aboriginal funeral
The rituals and practices marking the death of an Aboriginal person are likely to be unique to each community, and each community will have their own ways of planning the funeral.
However, in modern Australia, many Aboriginal families choose to use a funeral director to help them register the death and plan the funeral. There are funeral directors who specialise in working with Aboriginal communities and understand their unique needs.
Aboriginal funeral traditions
Funerals and mourning are very much a communal activity in Aboriginal culture. Families, friends and members of the larger community will come together to grieve and support each other.
Within some Aboriginal groups, there is a strong tradition of not speaking the name of a dead person, or depicting them in images. It is believed that doing so will disturb their spirit. This is why some Aboriginal families will not have photographs of their loved ones after they die. They may also use a substitute name, such as ‘Kumanjayi’, ‘Kwementyaye’ or ‘Kunmanara’, in order to refer to the person who has died without using their name. Not all communities conform to this tradition, but it is still commonly observed in the Northern Territory in particular.
Aboriginal funeral service
Funerals are important communal events for Aboriginal people. Ceremonies can last for days and even weeks, and children may be taken out of school in order to participate.
There may not be a singular funeral service, but a series of ceremonies, dances and songs spread out over several days. Each of these may have its own structure and meaning, according to that community’s specific traditions.
Some Aboriginal families will have a funeral service that combines modern Australian funeral customs with Aboriginal traditions. Again, this depends entirely on their beliefs and preferences.
Aboriginal burial or cremation
In the past and in modern day Australia, Aboriginal communities have used both burial and cremation to lay their dead to rest.
Traditionally, some Aboriginal groups buried their loved ones in two stages. First, they would leave them on an elevated platform outside for several months. Then, once only the bones were left, they would take them and paint them with red ochre. The painted bones could then be buried, placed in a significant location in the natural landscape, or carried with the family as a token of remembrance.
However, in modern Australia, people with Aboriginal heritage are more likely to opt for a standard burial or cremation, combined with elements of Aboriginal culture and ceremonies.
Aboriginal funeral etiquette
Because of the wide variation in Aboriginal cultures, modern funerals can take many different forms. For non-indigenous people attending an Aboriginal funeral, it is advisable to speak to a friend or family member of the person who has died to confirm the dress code. It is likely, however, that smart, clean clothing in subdued colours will be appropriate.
Be aware that as a non-Aboriginal person, you may not be invited to observe or participate in certain ceremonies and rituals, though this differs between communities. If you are present during a traditional song or dance, it is appropriate to stay respectfully silent, unless told otherwise.
For more information on religious funerals, visit our religious funerals page.